First, I want to say that my surgery proceeded normally, and I'm starting to feel better. My procedure was exactly 48 hours ago. I have some swelling and some pain when I move, but I feel lost better today than yesterday. If the trend continues, I'll be walking like normal in 5 or 6 days. (I'm still doing the hospital shuffle at the moment.) [I'll add a couple things in the advice post.]
But I have a new problem: I'm in love with my nurse.
... OK, not really "Love" but it sounds more dramatic that way. Let's just say, she's really cute, what's more she seems like a good person, and I'm interested in learning more about her and seeing her again.
This brings up two questions. #1 Is this some kind of patient-caregiver syndrome, like what happened in "Back to the Future" between Marty and his (future) Mom but in reverse? #2 How do you make that awkward first step at changing a professional relationship into a personal one?
The answer to #1 I'm leaving up to you guys. Am I being dumb? Please comment.
The answer to #2, I think, is to bring a little thank-you gift, like a fruit basket, next time I come to the hospital for my appointment, which is about 10 days from now. I'll print out the photo of me and her (taken by my request) and include my email on the back in case she wants to meet and practice English. ... We occasionally spoke about how to say different things that she often says to patients in English, so maybe that would be appropriate. (For examplle instead of "Please check your wound," to use "Please let me check your wound.") The point being, if she's interested she can write me. But if not, I'm just being thankful for the nursing staff who helped me out the past couple days.
Yes, I've been thinking about that. Could be I consider a nurse to be a good match since there are many nurses in my family, I dunno.
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Dating your nurse is a terrific thing! Bring the fruit basket for thanks, and ask her out. You like her! There doesn't have to be any other reason! English lessons come with dating you..
Stop wasting time asking for our advice! Go for it Lance!! Dad
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